3 Human Motivation
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3.1 Dan Ariely
📖 People are more motivated by the fear of losing something than the prospect of gaining something of equal value.
“Losses loom larger than gains.”
— Dan Ariely, Predictably Irrational
People are more motivated by the fear of losing something they already have than the prospect of gaining something of equal value.
“Framing matters.”
— Dan Ariely, Predictably Irrational
The way a choice is presented can influence people’s decisions, even if the underlying options are the same.
“Small changes can make a big difference.”
— Dan Ariely, The Upside of Irrationality
Small changes to the environment or the way choices are presented can have a significant impact on people’s behavior.
3.2 Adam Grant
📖 People are more likely to help others when they feel a sense of gratitude.
“Expressing gratitude can increase the likelihood of receiving further help.”
— Adam Grant, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
When individuals feel appreciated for assistance, they are more inclined to provide additional support in the future, fostering a positive cycle of reciprocity.
“Gratitude can be effectively conveyed through simple gestures or verbal expressions.”
— Adam Grant, Journal of Applied Psychology
Demonstrating gratitude does not require grand gestures; even small acts of appreciation, such as a handwritten note or verbal acknowledgment, can effectively communicate one’s thankfulness and encourage future support.
“Fostering a culture of gratitude in organizations can enhance employee engagement and job satisfaction.”
— Adam Grant, Academy of Management Journal
When organizations prioritize gratitude and recognize employee contributions, individuals feel valued and motivated, leading to increased job satisfaction and a positive work environment.
3.3 Carol Dweck
📖 People with a growth mindset believe that they can improve their abilities through effort, while people with a fixed mindset believe that their abilities are fixed.
“Mistakes are not indicative of lack of ability, but rather an essential element of the learning process.”
— Carol Dweck, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
“The way we speak to ourselves can have a profound impact on our motivation and performance.”
— Carol Dweck, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
“It is important to focus on the process, not just the outcome, to maintain motivation in the face of setbacks.”
— Carol Dweck, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
3.4 Edward Deci
📖 People are more motivated when they feel a sense of autonomy, competence, and relatedness.
“Motivation is not merely the desire to achieve a goal, but also the feeling of being in control of one’s actions and decisions.”
— Edward Deci, American Psychologist
People are more likely to be motivated when they feel a sense of autonomy, meaning they have the freedom to make their own choices and decisions. When people feel in control of their actions, they are more likely to be engaged and invested in their work.
“People are more motivated when they feel competent and capable of achieving their goals.”
— Edward Deci, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
When people feel competent, they believe in their ability to succeed. This belief leads to increased motivation and effort. When people feel incompetent, they are more likely to give up or avoid challenges.
“People are more motivated when they feel connected to others and have a sense of belonging.”
— Edward Deci, Journal of Experimental Social Psychology
When people feel connected to others, they are more likely to feel supported and valued. This support and value can lead to increased motivation and effort. When people feel isolated or disconnected, they are more likely to feel lonely and discouraged.
3.5 Gretchen Rubin
📖 People can be divided into four personality types when it comes to motivation: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels.
“People are different when it comes to motivation.”
— Gretchen Rubin, Unknown
Rubin’s research shows that people can be divided into four personality types when it comes to motivation: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels. Upholders are self-motivated and disciplined. Questioners are motivated by logic and reason. Obligers are motivated by external expectations. Rebels are motivated by a desire to be independent.
“The best way to motivate someone depends on their personality type.”
— Gretchen Rubin, Unknown
Rubin’s research shows that the best way to motivate someone depends on their personality type. For example, Upholders are best motivated by clear goals and expectations. Questioners are best motivated by logical arguments. Obligers are best motivated by external deadlines. Rebels are best motivated by a sense of autonomy.
“It is important to be aware of your own motivation style.”
— Gretchen Rubin, Unknown
Rubin’s research shows that it is important to be aware of your own motivation style. This can help you to understand why you are motivated by certain things and not by others. It can also help you to develop strategies for motivating yourself.
3.6 Nir Eyal
📖 Products and services that are designed to be habit-forming can be addictive and harmful.
“Technology can hook our brains and hold our attention.”
— Nir Eyal, Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products
Nir Eyal’s research shows how technology companies use psychological triggers to create products that are hard to resist. These triggers exploit our brain’s natural reward pathways, making us crave the product and come back for more.
“We need to be mindful of our technology use.”
— Nir Eyal, Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products
Once we understand how technology can hook our brains, we can take steps to protect ourselves. We need to be mindful of our technology use and set limits for ourselves. We also need to be aware of the triggers that make us want to use our devices and avoid them if possible.
“We need to design technology that is more humane.”
— Nir Eyal, Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products
Technology companies have a responsibility to design products that are not addictive. They need to create products that are helpful and enjoyable, but that do not harm our well-being. We need to hold technology companies accountable for the products they create and demand that they design products that are more humane.
3.7 BJ Fogg
📖 Behavior change is most likely to happen when a person feels motivated, has the ability to perform the behavior, and is prompted to do so.
“Behavior can be predicted by looking at the three variables that make up the Fogg Behavior Model: motivation, ability, and triggers.”
— BJ Fogg, Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything
The Fogg Behavior Model states that behavior is a product of motivation, ability, and prompts. This means that in order for someone to perform a behavior, they must be motivated to do it, they must be able to do it, and they must be prompted to do it.
“Motivation is the most important factor in behavior change.”
— BJ Fogg, Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything
Motivation is the driving force behind all behavior. It is what gets us started, keeps us going, and helps us to overcome obstacles. Without motivation, it is very difficult to change behavior.
“The best way to change behavior is to start small and gradually increase the difficulty.”
— BJ Fogg, Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything
People are more likely to stick with a behavior change if they start small and gradually increase the difficulty. This is because it is easier to make small changes that you can sustain over time than to make large changes all at once that you are likely to give up on.
3.8 James Clear
📖 Atomic habits are small, easy-to-do actions that can have a big impact on your life over time.
“Make it easy to do the right thing.”
— James Clear, Unknown
The easier it is to do the right thing, the more likely you are to actually do it.
“Make it hard to do the wrong thing.”
— James Clear, Unknown
The harder it is to do the wrong thing, the less likely you are to actually do it.
“Don’t try to change too much at once.”
— James Clear, Unknown
If you try to change too much at once, you’re more likely to get discouraged and give up. Instead, focus on making small, incremental changes over time.
3.9 Charles Duhigg
📖 Habits are formed through a three-step process: cue, routine, and reward.
“The best way to break a bad habit is to replace it with a good one.”
— Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit
When you try to quit a bad habit, you are essentially creating a vacuum in your life. If you don’t fill that vacuum with something positive, you are likely to fall back into your old ways. That’s why it is important to replace bad habits with good ones. When you replace a bad habit with a good one, you are not only breaking the old habit, but you are also creating a new and positive routine in your life.
“The key to creating a new habit is to make it as easy as possible.”
— Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit
When you are trying to create a new habit, it is important to make it as easy as possible to stick to. If the habit is too difficult, you are likely to give up. That’s why it is important to start small and gradually increase the difficulty of the habit over time. For example, if you want to start exercising, don’t try to go to the gym every day. Start by going for a walk a few times a week. Once you have that habit down, you can start increasing the frequency and intensity of your workouts.
“Habits can be changed, but it takes time and effort.”
— Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit
Breaking a bad habit or creating a new one is not easy. It takes time and effort. But if you are consistent and persistent, you can change your habits and improve your life.
3.10 Yuval Noah Harari
📖 Humans are a storytelling species, and the stories we tell ourselves shape our reality.
“To influence others, tell stories instead of giving orders or sharing facts.”
— Yuval Noah Harari, Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind
Stories are more engaging and memorable than facts, and they can create a sense of emotional connection and trust between the storyteller and the listener.
“Use visual aids and metaphors to make your stories more vivid and memorable.”
— Yuval Noah Harari, Homo Deus: A Brief History of Tomorrow
Visual aids and metaphors can help to create a deeper understanding of complex ideas and concepts.
“Be patient and persistent when telling your story.”
— Yuval Noah Harari, 21 Lessons for the 21st Century
It can take time for people to understand and accept new ideas, so don’t give up if you don’t see immediate results.